11.12.10

Since somebody didn't like MY rulebook.


Rule #1. Never screw over your best friend.  Your best friend is your bread and butter. They will be there for you threw the thick and thin in what matters.  They might not be there in certain times because of the strain in their own lives.  But nonetheless, if you needed them, they would be there for you.  Dependable in most circumstances minus their busy life. 
Rule #2.  There’s a difference between theorizing and assuming. Never assume  Theorizing with a friend is believing what maybe happening, a gut feeling, or a possible scenario.  Theorizing is never put into another persons mind that you don’t trust.  It is not the same as assuming.  Assuming or assumption is a theory made and told to the public.  It is the gossip that is turned to a rumor.
Rule #3. Before you panic, sit down and think about your next action.  Calm and collect equals character.  We often get stuck with the time, believing time is moving faster than we are.  Therefore, most problems are not time related.  Instead of picking for answers and getting nowhere, just sit down and think about what you should do and not what you want to do.
Rule #4. Never believe anyone other then your best friend and family members.  People believe this is a pessimistic outcome in my views of life.   Maybe so, maybe not.  People like to exaggerate and hype up whatever it is they are saying.   Sometimes they might be right, but that doesn’t mean they are always right.
Rule #5. Do not give anyone the benefit of the doubt regardless of the circumstances.  I say this only because I do not like being disappointed.
Rule #6. Be the Difference.  Nobody likes followers.  The greatest leaders learned from previous leaders to become a leader of their own, to lead the followers.   Be the difference because that’s what stands out.
Rule #7. Everyone lies.  Tell me something different.  Some people try not to lie, but that doesn’t mean they don’t lie. 
Rule #8. People live by “Me first, you second.”  Act accordingly.  In most circumstances this is true.  It is extremely rare to find someone who lives for the other people and themselves.  The ones who are You first, me second, are extremely rare and should praise them.
Rule #9 There is an exception for every rule. The exceptions are the ones you want in your life. 
Rule #10. Social networking is not the solution.  Stop facebooking and Twittering all the g dang time.
Rule #11. Never do anything you do not want to do. Peer pressure is nothing.  You can fight peer pressure, don’t ever be afraid to say no.  Don’t be worried about what other people will think of you if you do or do not do certain things.  This relates with the rule of being different, not the followers.
Rule #12 Never take anything for granted.  You shouldn’t believe things will always be there.  Change is constant, even people.  So don’t take things or people for granted because they might not always be there.  The better the friend, the more they’ll be depended on ,but never not under appreciate what you have. Be grateful.
Rule #13. Do not get in a relationship with a co-worker.   It will define your work.  You’ll go to work to see them, instead of working.  There should be a separate work place and girl time.  Most of the time it ends akward and if you break up while still working ,what becomes of work.  It will make work less appealing. 
Rule #14 To keep a secret, keep it to yourself.  Second best? Tell one other person, if you must. There is no 3rd best.  Secrets always find their ways of getting out.  If you don’t tell anyone, it will remain a secret. Even best friends can go against their will and tell someone. 
Rule #15. When the job is done, walk away. 
Rule #16 Beware of the woman who comes to you when you are ahead.  Most people, not just women, go to people when they have things the other does not have.  They use people because of their position.  Be aware of that person because they will use you as much as they can.  Not all people do this, but some do, and those you should know about. 
Rule #17 The real person is shown only through challenge and controversy.  Calm and collective = character.  How the person reacts to challenge and controvery will define how they really are deep down inside.  The real emotions come out and speak for them. 
Rule #18 Live like you are hated because in reality, only a few care.  This might sound pessimistic but honestly, we all have our own lives.  Close friends care about promotions, new jobs, or opportunities.  Others might say they are happy for you, but in all honesty, they probably don’t care.  Only a few care about your honest feelings.  That’s different then people caring for your well-being. 
Rule #19 Follow your heart and your heart only. Don’t listen to what other people say because it will only make you go against their wishes.  Of course you should listen to the ones that matter like your parents and close friends.  But in the end, it is your choice and the only one we have to blame for the results are ourselves.
Rule #20 Never listen to the outside world.  Relates with being different and not following.  It also has to do with following your heart.  The world is not in the position you are.  Acknowledge this and do what is best for you and your family, not for any other world. 
Rule #21 It is better to seek forgiveness than to seek permission.  I always find it better to do an act and apologize for it than to seek permission, gt denied, and do the act anyway.  It adds more disappoint to the higher authority.  Of course, this is all legal acts we are speaking of. 
Rule #22 There is no such thing as coincidence.  Things happen for a reason. Sometimes, these reasons are unexplained or ironic.  But everything happens for a  reason.  Higher power.
Rule #24 You can forgive, but never forget. To forgive is to accept an apology.  But never forget what the apology was for, because these acts can always be repeated.  If not by the same person, than by a different.  But you should know what may or may not happen from previous mistakes. 
Rule #25 Don’t believe what you are told, unless it is from your mother.  Everyone lies rule.  The most persons you can trust are the ones in your family.  Something about family is stronger than most friendships.  But be aware, sometimes, mothers and fathers tell you things to protect you.
Rule #26 Number one prevails all. Best friends will always be there, and vice versa. 
Rule #27 99 percent of the words coming out of people’s mouth is bullshit.  We all like to exaggerate and hype up what actually happens.  It’s our entertainment.  That’s why celebrity gossip is so big.   Don’t believe everything you hear, only follow the facts you know. 
Rule #28 The only thing you give to a person is your word.  The only thing you give to a friend is your hand. The only thing you give to your wife is your heart.  Enough said.
Rule #29 Things work in this order: Best, Fam, Car, Dog, Significant.  Maybe you have different priorities, but this order never seems to disappoint.  We shouldn’t revolve our lives around our significant’s, things can get ugly that way.
Rule #30 Never have more than 10 friends.  Friends are those who will be there in the end, not those that come and go.  Those are not considered friends, but more of an acquaintance.   How well the acquaintance is depends on how long you’ve known them. 
Rule #31 Never leave home without your knife.  For your protection and use. 
Rule #32 Taking someone’s significant is a crime and will not end good in any way.  Homewrecking should never occur unless the home is already wrecked.  Most of the time, the person will go back to them at some point, with or without your knowledge.  Morality vs Desire, Morality should win. 
Rule #33 Never let a girl come in between your friendship.  Too many people have already done this.  People should remember where they came from and who’s been there through thick and thin.  The significant should understand this, and the person should realize this.  If you and that person break up, who’s there to pick you up, the significant or the friend?  To make someone your world leaves your friends behind.
Rule #34 Do not worry about other people’s business. What is it with the world and gossip. Leave it alone, it does not relate with you.
Rule #35 Never rely on anyone.  People have their own lives and to depend on them might be too stressful them.  People will make excuses on why they couldn’t do certain things.  It’s better to plan ahead and plan around than to expect someone doing what you need them to do. 
Rule #36 Learn from other people's mistakes. Leader, not follower.    You won’t live long enough to experience it all.  

Rule #37 Actions always speak Louder than words. Silence speaks loudest.  He said she said type stuff will always be smaller than actual actions.  Silence is the biggest action, but be cautious.  It can mean the biggest thing or smallest thing.  Maybe they care, maybe they don’t. 

Rule #38 Never fall for anything twice. Shame on you if you do.  We are the only ones to blame for our faults and failures. 

Rule #39 People are fake until proven.  Don’t act like you know someone when you just met them.  You don’t know what they are capable of or what they have habits of doing.  You’ll be disappointed if you trust someone before you even know them.  Kind of related with the word love.  You don’t honestly love someone after two days.

Rule #40 They are single unless proven otherwise. What you don’t know don’t hurt.

Rule #45 Never say never, no matter how impossible it seems. There’s ways around the walls.  You may give in, but never give up.

Rule #47 There is no time for bullshit. Ever. Do your work and stfu.  Stop making excuses and just be yourself.  None of that fake stuff in here. 

There are always exceptions to rules.  This is not suppose to be negative.  But if you experience enough of the real world, honest people are hard to come by.  Be aware of your surroundings of all times.  I say don't trust people because how well do we really know someone.  And even if we think we know them great, we have no faced challenge and controversy to see their real inner character.  People say they're nice and selfless but in all honesty, words are only words.  Actions through hard times will speak louder than anything said.  Perception of something is different than the actual truth.  We can not go into peoples heads, so never doubt someone.   The best thing to do is stay neutral and care-free.  Base things by what you know, not what you heard. Truth will always remain, even through all the lies.  
These rules are for self-purposes.  You might not agree with all or any of these rules.  These are my rules and not necessarily yours.  People should try to be the best person they can be and live for others than themselves.  Calm and collective, challenge and controversy. Be easy.

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