She likes difficult, not easy.
She says she wants the nice guy, but she’s attracted to the douche bags.
She says she wants someone reliable and stable, but only hopes on some a Holes.
She complains daily about the attention she doesn’t get and forgets about the one who is listening.
She watches some chick flick and cries because that’s never happened to her before, little does she know that us nice guys are the ones who have the brilliant plans.
She always wants to fall deeply for the bad guy, but bad guys can’t catch.
She tries for some guy who COULD sweep her off her feet, not for the one who WILL sweep her off her feet.
She will wait for that one Guy to NOT come around, while we fly circles holding up our own emotions.
She says she can't find the good ones.  Clearly, she’s never looked our way.
She believes the bigger the catch the bigger the love, Mama always said it were the smaller things that make the big moments.
She puts her faith in a bad Guy turning good, but never tries the good Guy who never goes bad. 
She will talk to her girl friends about how hot some dude is, but she’ll never speak of how sweet he's not.
She will wait , hope, and day dream about the ass guy who doesn’t makes the first move, while we make moves to her everyday.
She texts the guy who’s not interested every five minutes, but won’t respond to the one who actually sees her for more than a piece of ass.
She likes the ones who stand out, but not the ones that stand in.
She lives for the parties and the attention, and denies the steady and healthy.
She chases around for the guy who keeps multiple women chasing, but she’ll deny the one who chases her.

More often or not,

The man you describe is the one you’re not chasing.
The man who’s traits you desire, are often filled by the nice guy.
We listen to every word, and fit most requirements to a T.
Whatever we lack, we make up with our other talents you ignore.
The man in the movies learned those moves from us.
The difference between a dog like guy and a nice guy is, we have plans and we don’t leave when the times are rough.
We also don’t leave in the morning.
We know you for you because we listen.  We don’t look just at what you wear or listen to what you’re doing, we listen to what you desire, what you like, and what your favorite things are.  And we REMEMBER.
Every little thing that you do, we note, because to us it matters.  To someone else, it’s just another “girl.”
We don’t worry about how you look without makeup, we worry about how you look with make up. JK We don’t worry at all about how you look, we worry about your contentment.
We worry about how to make things better for your life, not ours.
We will walk those thousand miles to prove our worth.
We will drive around town looking for the only size shoes you want.

We are the ones

Who take you to dinner just because, treat you well because we respect you, and buy you gifts because your happiness is priceless.
Who drop what we’re doing to help you because you deserve better.
Who open the doors because we want to, not because we have to.
Who slipped the romantic ideas into the movies.
Who get the bigger picture in life, not the one night stands.
Who will listen to you while you speak about your current abuser, Ex Boyfriends, and random dudes who get at you.
Who will admit our mistakes and work our way back not to impress you but because we want to.
Who always believe in what you do.
Who knows how to keep a spark on fire.
That buy too many materialistic items just to catch your attention.
Who think you’re going to finally realize we exist.
Who don’t make moves because we fear rejection and loss of friendship.
Who are unselfish, allowing you to experience whatever thrill it is you like to experience.
Who will always be there in the end, whether times are rough, happy, sad, or incomplete.
Who believe you’ll change your heart.

You’re in love with us, you just don’t know it yet.
The concept of love exists.  Whether you’re a pessimist or optimist, the honest, true, character of a person is out there.  Not everyone has the characteristics we adore, not everyone can be the ideal person.  The only thing we as individuals can do, and will do, is be our moral, honest, person.  The only thing we can do is be ourselves, unselfish, patient, and righteous.  We’ve seen these stories and examples of love, and question whether or not it is true love.  And the answer is yes, it is there.  But it takes dedication, work, and morality.  It takes character and courtesy, time and commitment, sacrifice and dedication, pain and suffering.
Be cautious of the people around you.  They know what kind of person you are and what kind of things you’ll do for them.  They’ll take advantage of your every positive aspect they can’t find in their surrounding peers, and use you like food stamps.  The idea of love is so far beyond measures that words can not explain even if it were written in a book.  Love is there because with love are dedicated people who are willing to risk their every moment and action to achieve such a feeling.  And even though we cannot explain these feelings and desires, we know it’s there because some way some how, we’ve experienced true happiness.  Whether it was with our families, our friends, or our toys, we have experienced the true meaning of love.
If you’re strung out on a person who’s not willing to give you that time, dedication, sacrifice, and thousands of other things you desire, then you need to ask yourself, “Is this person really for me.”  The ones you seek to be your significant are either playing games with you or don’t see you the same way.  Yes, maybe they’ll see you in the same way.  Maybe they did.  But the timing is most important in love.  You’ve heard it all before, “I love you buy I’m not in love with you.”  And if you come to the conclusion that you still want to be there for them because you know you are the best choice for them, than stay.  Stay because that is what love takes.

To Be Continued.

 There is one person in our lives who has the power to take our hearts to a new level.  One day, the love of our life will walk in our lives.   And when this person walks in your life, they just sweep you by storm.  All of the walls to your broken heart are torn down.  All of the rules you put in place to protect yourself are nullified.  You may have known this person your whole life or you may have known them for a second. Whether it’s a surprise or expected, they are the ones you’ve waited for your whole life.  Their cute smile when you look at them, the smirks or gestures you make when they do something funny or stupid, and their adorable laughter when you do the weirdest things.  The world may be laughing at you, but they are laughing with you.  Nobody in the world can fulfill their voice, their look, or their every move.  Anyone can imitate but never duplicate.  Only you know who the originator and developer is, only you know who combines every little act to make them your unique love.  One of a Kind.

Before them, life was just a haze.  You wouldn’t care for much on your daily routine.  Life was bittersweet, without a drive, without a purpose.  You were usually indecisive but friendly, courteous but scared, and shallow but sweet.  The rainbow was missing some colors, the tea was missing some sugar.  Bittersweet.  You were missing the life without the love. You never liked change before, but before, they were never in your life.

When you have them by your side, through thick and thin, great times and bad, you squeeze them cause you never want to let go.  You give up your entire life just to be next to them, through richer or poorer. No money can put a price on this love.  No person can fill the shoes that they have.  No one can love like their heart can because their heart is simply too big And even though you waited your entire life for this person, you realize everyday, the time was worth the wait.  Embarrassment is never in the dictionary when you two are together.  Dance like nobody is watching.  No road is too short or too rough, no secrets or mixed feelings are never too complicated or too wrong.  You are the world.

They are never too tough or too hard on you.  You are purely your true and honest self and they love you for it.  There’s no need to hide anything because they simply see the brightest light you have to shine.  They never bring you down because you are perfect in their eyes, even if you feel as if they deserve better.  They protect you with all their might, and they support you with all their will.  They are never afraid to bring you out in public or tell their friends who you are and what you mean to them.  Us against the World.

Jealousy, ambitions, deception are never valid in you because you trust them.  You love them for who they are with no games attached.  Everything you do is for them because you know the gesture is mutual.  Every time your phone rings or a text message is received, you look at your phone with the sense that it’s them.  And with no disappointed, it is.  Either them telling you to have a good day or “I’ll see you when you’re done,” gives you the excitement with the warm fuzzy feeling inside, the smile on the outside, and the knowledge that today will be a great day.  Today will be a great day because the best part of the day has yet to come.  The best part of my day, at the end of the day, you will be together.  It is moments like these you remember the most, it is these moments that will always take our feelings to the next level. 

When something great happens, you can’t wait to share it with them.  Even if they don’t see things the same way, they’ll smile because they know it’s what you enjoy.  During the rough times, you’re not afraid to tell them they’re wrong because you love them any way with whatever they do.  And though you may advise them differently with life’s many obstacles, you know your love for them will never change. You share secrets to each other because they’re your other half, and who else would be better to share things with than them.  Your understanding and feeling for one another are equally developed and parallel with the lifestyle you live.  Your disagreements are never more than disagreements. If the time calls for a shoulder, they are there to lean on.  Laughing or crying, they are never embarrassed to laugh or cry with you.  Thick and thin. Sickness and in health, they are caring for you with whatever disease you have.  Risking their own job and their health to ensure that you are the most comfortable sick person.

A Whole New World.  Foods you thought you’d never try, you like.  News that never interested or pertained to you before, now interest you more than ever now that they talk about it.  The things you thought you never do or like becomes fascinating because they introduced you to their world.    Every action you make or take, you think beforehand and contemplate each and every single time, “What would they think?  What would they do?”  Better yet, most of the time you think, “Will they do this with me?”  9 times out of 10 the answer is yes, regardless of how they feel about the matter.

My other half. It’s more than friend, it’s family.  They are your truest and honest best friend, they are your heart’s keeper.  They take away the IN of complete.  They add the Me to Aweso. They are the cement in your walls, they are the legs where you stand.   The pain you had is no more.  The love you never knew is there. Hold on tight, Hold on tight.

It’s just you and me, off into the sunset